Even a snail will eventually reach its destination.
In life, there are always going to be obstacles and things that set you back from reaching goals you’ve set for yourself. No one is exempt. In my forty years of life and twenty being an adult, I’ve had many, but when I set a goal; I see it through to the end. I was out of work for quite some time, but no one knew unless you were close to me. I kept myself together, mentally, physically and spiritually. I continued to do the things I needed to do and looked for work. I was given a few opportunities to do some things to get my name out there and I blogged more and more. It’s a slow process, but I’m moving in the right direction. I kept going, not just for myself, but for my son. Our children and people we don’t even know are looking to us for inspiration. You can’t let minor setbacks keep you from getting to the finish line. Everything happens in the time it is meant to, so don’t fret when something doesn’t happen on your specific timeline. God’s timing is the absolute best, so wait on him, but keep pushing because you will absolutely get to the place in which you wish to go.
Whatever you want from life, whatever destination you wish to reach; P. U. S. H., move in silence and let those accomplishments speak for you!
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Just when the caterpillar thought her life was over, she began to fly!
Happy Friday, Fashionistas!
It’s the first day of April and this is my first I post for the year! I’ve been gone for several months, not blogging due to a new work schedule and issues with my health. I just wasn’t feeling like blogging at all and put it on the back burner to focus on my health and other things. It’s no excuse, but when you’re not feeling something, you shouldn’t force it. I felt like I’d lost my mojo and desperately needed to get it back. Now I’m back and ready to pick up where I left off! As you may know if you’ve been following me, I am living with type one diabetes and it has been a constant struggle, a daily struggle but I am improving my health and getting my numbers down. It really is a challenge to stay on top of things when you have a crazy work schedule and other things going on in your life, but my health is paramount. Since my last post I have had some issues with my sugar and am now using an insulin pump to control my blood sugar. I’m not going to tell you that it’s easy and I’m not going to tell you that I’m not having a difficult time because I am. This is one of the most challenging things that I’ve ever had to deal with in my life! I will not let it get the best of me though. Next week, I’m meeting with another diabetes educator who is going to show me the ropes on using my insulin pump and really getting things under control. I hope that this post will find someone that is struggling just like I am and be a source of inspiration because that is what I strive to do every day of my life. I want to help people and still let you know that you’re not in this by yourself.
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The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are. ~ C. G. Jung
Hello guys and dolls! It’s been a little over a month since I’ve posted, but I’ve missed you all and hope you are well. I’ve been consumed with my new job and getting acclimated to the schedule.
Last week, I attended an art event in NYC called Pancakes & Booze! The Pancakes & Booze Art Show is an LA based artist movement that started in 2009 and has quickly spread to over 20+ cities throughout North America.
This year a friend of mine was displaying his photographs so I attended to support him and the other artists. It was my first time attending and I had a great time. Here’s a look at some of the work displayed! Here are a few pictures I snapped while at the event. Check the website out for more info on these pieces!
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We’ll never make it to our milestones if we can’t make it through our moments ~ Beth Moore
So, yesterday, I turned the big 40! As I sit back and reflect on all the things that have occurred in my life up to this point; I have to say I’m extremely blessed! I’ve had many ups and downs, but they’ve both humbled me and forced me to grow up. I can’t even fathom how I’ve overcome the many obstacles, but I know it was not without God. I think about all of the life experiences I can share with my readers and hope that you get something positive from my triumphs and/or failures.
In terms of fashion, I have been moving into a more mature style. I’ve always dressed according to how I felt, but to be perfectly honest, sometimes it’s best to keep your feelings to yourself, lol. I look back on some of the things I’ve worn over the years and say “Kimsue, what the hell were you thinking?” Not that the looks were bad, but some things just should not be worn when you are a woman of a particular age. It may make perfect sense to you at the time, but later on it was just plain foolishness. That doesn’t mean that I won’t still have fun with fashion. I’m more interested in wearing pieces that are timeless, command attention in a positive and fashion forward kind of way. I am embarking on a whole new journey as I enter this new decade and chapter of life and I want my style to reflect that.
“Reinvent new combinations of what you already own. Improvise. Become more creative. Not because you have to, but because you want to. Evolution is the secret for the next step.” Karl Lagerfeld
Creating great looks without having to go shopping is both a money and time saver! I am striving to not purchase many new things this season, as I really don’t need anything and I am saving to move. I just purged four closets of clothing and shoes and will be giving away those pieces to my Church and a few people I know. It’s important to give back whenever possible. I try to be a blessing to others because I know what it’s like to struggle. I am creating new looks with things that I’ve already worn. There is so much you can do with the clothing you already have and if you’re like me; you have a lot to choose from. The more you can do with your pieces, the better. I have worn these boyfriend jeans a few ways and I love that I can dress them up or down.
“Binge on life. Purge negativity. Starve guilty feelings. Restrict unhappy thoughts. Count blessings, not calories. The only weight you ever need to lose is the weight of the world on your shoulders.” -Unknown
I love blogging and sharing with you, my looks and life experiences. I took some time away to get my house in order (literally and figuratively). I removed a lot of clutter from my life on many levels and am now feeling like I can conquer the world with a clear mind. It’s always a good idea to do some purging in your life to help make room for the more important things. I’m on a journey and things are coming to pass that I didn’t think were even possible.
Now, on to the fashion of this post! I am challenging myself this season by not shopping too much and attempting to wear all the things that I have currently, in my wardrobe. You may see some new pieces, but for the most part, there will be a lot of vintage pieces in upcoming posts. There’s nothing better than being able to create great looks with what you already own. I got these floral high waisted pants and top from Zara in May and wore it right before the weather got hot. I love it so much that I thought about the different ways I could style them separately. I can think of several ways to style these two pieces, but for starters, I decided to style them with denim and chambray for the fall.
Have you ever loved something so much, that you find a number of ways to use it? Yeah, these white jeans are one of my favorites and I love to find new ways to style them. There is nothing wrong with repeating your clothing! You pay for things to be used and not collect dust, right? I don’t usually wear the same thing twice in a month, but I do repeat things. I hear a lot of people say they don’t repeat outfits. I honestly think it’s a waste not to. You don’t have to wear your stuff the same every time. That’s the beauty of maximizing your wardrobe. Having things that you can wear more than one way is great! Since fall is approaching, I opted to wear my favorite white jeans with a sleeveless duster and suede fringed sandals! I am making an effort not to purchase anything new and to utilize all the wonderful pieces I already own. When you have a plethora of clothing in your wardrobe, you don’t need to purchase so much. I have been blessed to have a lot, so I am trying to use what I have and not add anything new to my already overwhelming, but very well-organized closets.
Have a wonderful weekend and thanks for stopping by!
Excellence does not require perfection – Henry James
I’ve never claimed to be an expert at taking pictures. Hell, I don’t even know how to set my camera to blur the background, but I will try every time until I get it right. All of the pictures you see are taken by my sister who happens to be a novice photographer. Just like fashion is my passion, photography is hers. One of these days, very soon; I am going to purchase a really great camera with all the bells and whistles and we will be capturing the most amazing photos; but for now, we work with what we’ve got. I love fashion, style, photos and writing about my life’s experiences and I want that to be reflected in my photographs. As time progresses, the pictures will improve because we are committed to bringing forth excellence in our work. I believe that location is everything and will magnify the beauty in your photos. I have the style part down pat, but still working on the quality of the photos. I’m no model and sometimes, I have issues with my poses. I think that’s because I’m thinking too much when shooting. Most of the time, I am goofing off, but that’s when the photos come out the best. I think the key for me is; don’t overthink things` and let it flow naturally. I am not trying to be anyone, but Kimsue and my photos reflect my personality. I am a goofball and life of the party and I want you to see that fun loving side of me. As far as the content; I have been more and more consistent with my blog this year. Although, it’s not where I want it to be, I know that consistency is key and I will reach the place in which I am heading. Bear with me!
Get out of your own way…Stop the paralysis…decide what you want…create a simple plan and GET MOVING! – Dr. Steve Maraboli
Creating opportunities for yourself is one of the best things that you can do to expand your brand. It’s not easy, but if you’re passionate, consistent and believe in your brand, anything is possible. I have so much in store for my personal growth and I’m glad to finally be in a position where I can make things happen. For such a long time, I’ve been afraid of my own success that I’ve allowed the fear and lack of support cripple me. After much prayer and a conversation I had with a complete stranger; I had an epiphany. I need to get out of my own way and make it happen. If you’re like me, afraid to get out there and do your thing, don’t be! You never know the success you can have. You are the only one standing in your way!
How fitting…My parents were together for 50 years and this is my fiftieth post! One year ago today, I lost the only MAN that meant the world to me, My father! Words cannot express how much I miss him. As I write this post, Whitney Houston is playing and I am drowning in tears. If you know me, you know that I am a true Daddy’s girl! We had the most special relationship and living without him has been painful, to say the least. I am trying everyday, to be strong and continue his legacy, but it is the most difficult thing to do. I constantly wonder if I’ve made him proud. He told me many times, so I should just take comfort in that. One of the many things my Dad taught me was to never give up on anything or anyone and I strive to make people better through my actions and interactions. I don’t want to go on and be sad about losing him, but I can’t help it.
My Dad was a wonderful man with a great sense of humor. He lit everything and everyone up around him and his smile could brighten up the darkest of days. Today, my mother, sisters, son, niece and nephew visit his grave at the National Cemetery to reflect and remember the great man that he was! He shaped all of our lives and I don’t know where any of us would be without him.
Thank you for taking the time to read this post! Until next time!